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Come Shop With Me!

I am so excited to share more about what I have been up to and open up about some dreams I have had for the last YEAR!

If you follow me on Social Media, you may have noticed on my posts and on my instastories, that I have been posting about Poshmark and having sales in my “closet.”

I started using Poshmark out of a desire to reorganize my closet, get rid of items that I no longer wore but were still in really good condition, and see what I could make by selling my gently loved items.

Lo and behold, I made a few hundred in a few weeks of using the site (and I didn’t have thousands of items posted either!) and I knew I was on to something.

If you don’t know me well, know this. I love to shop.  I love finding beautiful clothes.  I love sharing what I find with my friends and family (stay tuned for my holiday wish list for the people in your life!) It is a way for me to express myself creatively by finding cute clothes and wearing them out.  Plus, when you feel good in what you are wearing, you suddenly find yourself far more productive.  I don’t know if that is really true, but I feel that is definitely true for my personality!

Poshmark is a free buy/sell app where men and women can buy clothes at online or you can be a seller and sell items from your own closet, resell items you find at thrift stores, or even open your own boutique on Poshmark if you qualify! (I will get into that in a second.)

If you don’t already have the app, you can download it and use the code tiffharper143 to save $5 on your first purchase!

I have been praying for new ways to bring in additional income for my family during our season our wait, and I knew I wanted to do something in regards to fashion. My husband has always teased me that I should have a job that pays me to buy clothes. And truthfully, I was looking at several companies that were not MLM’s, but would allow me to purchase clothing and accessories in order to sell them outside of my home.  I was so excited about the possibility, that I spent a good deal of time researching and praying and going over which company would be a great fit for me and for my family.

Poshmark, like I had mentioned earlier, had happened upon me and was initially just a way for me to move the gently loved items out of my home and declutter, and make some really easy and fast cash.  After two weeks of using the site, thanks to having plenty of sales in my closet and having 5 Star ratings, I was notified that I was eligible to open a boutique on Poshmark.  Which leads to this:

Olivia Rhea.

Olivia Rhea is the name of my little boutique on Poshmark.  I chose that name for one because it was the name that, should the Lord had given us a second daughter, I wanted Olivia Rhea to be her name. Rhea (pronounced Ray)  is my middle name.  I wanted something personal. This feels like another baby to me, but it is so much fun and I am enjoying it so much. It is fun and it is, for the most part, brainless, and I am really thankful that I get to do this!

I now have a boutique on Poshmark. Which means that each week, I will be adding new, beautiful clothing and accessories to my shop for you to buy.  And you can do it all from the comfort of your home, via an app. You don’t have to show me your credit card and you will get your items via priority mail….which means you get them quick!

Right now, I have the softest sweater EVER (seriously, you need it to layer over all the things as you go about your daily errands or after your workouts) and comfy leggings. More will be added in the coming weeks (including a new item today, so be watching my insta-stories)

Every item will be wrapped personally by me and with a special note, just to thank you for shopping with me. And if you are feeling brave and want to show off how amazing you look, don’t forget to tag me in your outfit photos!  I would love to see you!!!

I will also give you guys the chance to be the buyer!  I want to be able to add all sizes, so don’t be afraid to let me know what you want to see in my shop so I can try and get that for you.

A question that I will probably get a lot that I thought I should answer right now:

Will I always be selling my items on poshmark?

In short, no.  I have really big dreams and vision about where I want Olivia Rhea, the name of my little shop on Poshmark to go. For now, though, it works easiest for me and for all of you.  Easy shopping and fast shipping.  I will share more as those dreams become closer to becoming a reality, but for now, all shopping will happen on Poshmark (unless you are one of my friends and family and are local…obviously, come hang out and shop with me! I will have coffee and snacks!)

I cannot wait to share more with you gals and to offer even more pretty things so you can look and feel your best.  Because we are women who live with purpose and we wear so many hats, let’s dress ourselves with purpose and do the things we are called to do.

Be a Size You,

Tiffany Harper


Big Weekend Coming up and Some Jane Goodies

Happy Thursday!!! I am so excited that the weekend is almost here!  Today, I am prepping some snack food for our College Football viewing, as well as helping Madi out at her Swim a thon that will be taking place Saturday.  This is her swim team’s biggest fundraiser of the year and all the money they raise will go towards the needs of the team and swimmers and to host meets, etc.  Madi is loving her time on the swim team.  She has stated that she would love to compete at the Olympics when they are in LA in 2028 so here we go!!!  So proud of this chick!

I have something fun to share with y’all.  It is no secret that I enjoy shopping and sharing with you guys the cutest clothes that I find on the interwebs. There are so many amazing women who own the cutest boutiques, and I am constantly in heaven, much to my husband’s horror.  He hides the wallet!

I also love a really good deal and if you have never heard of Jane.com, allow me to introduce you! I was introduced to this company last year by my sweet friend, after I asked her  about a really cute shirt she was wearing in a video. She told me that she practically gets most of her clothes from there.  I didn’t know what to expect, and I was hesitant at first because there are a lot of clothing websites on Facebook and Instagram that aren’t legit and will scam you of your money (and they aren’t even located in the US and the shipping takes forever, if it even arrives at all.)

But I have been so happy with Jane.  A lot of my favorite pieces in my closet have come from this store and I love that they partner with boutiques and small businesses and they are at a great price point!

Dress  and booties from Jane.com

Here are some pieces I am eyeing right now on their site:

Ankle Booties / 3 Colors


Ruffle Sleeve Babydoll Top

Slide Loafers with Tassel / 6-11!

Fall Floral Swing Dress!

They even have stuff for your home and your children!

Striped Turkish Hand Towels

Oversized Farmhouse Style Vinyl Designs

Personalized Hoodie Sets / 0-24 Months

(basically, I need a cute little girl to dress up!)

There are a ton of great items on this site. And a lot of these items that are shown (among others) are only available for a short period of time. It is essentially a deal site where you can buy really cute clothes, accessories, home goods, and more at a special deal and then once the time is up, that’s it! And things do sell out often on this site, so if you see something you LOVE, don’t hesitate to grab it.

You can also download the app as well, but take it from  me, that is really dangerous. LOL!

I hope you will check them out!  I would love to hear what you think.  Expect me to share a lot of deals on my facebook and Instagram when I come upon them because I truly do love this site!

Be  a Size You,


FTC disclaimer: Some of the links included are affiliate links.  Should you choose to click on them or purchase through those links, I do receive a small commission. That being said, I only share what I truly love and believe that others would benefit from. I will always share my honest opinion on products, regardless of whether I was paid or not.

I Have a Slight Problem…

I have been shopping for cute fitness gear a lot lately. Spring is here and I am all about the florals and gorgeous pastels!!! Like this gorgeous set I picked up at Old Navy *swoon*

Tank and bottoms from Old Navy

Sometimes, we just need a little motivation for healthy living. And truly, nothing motivates me quite like a new outfit! Whenever I reach a fitness or a business goal, shopping is generally on the reward list. Haha! If I could get paid to shop, I would be all over that! (Actually, you kind of can….heard of Ebates? 😘 You’re welcome!)

I thought I would share with you a few of my favorite purchases lately and where you can grab them. Some really cute and decently priced items out there! Yes, you can look cute and break a sweat! 

Tanks and bras from Dick’s Sporting Goods.

Dick’s Sporting Goods was having a sale recently so I picked up a couple of pieces. I was looking at Carrie Underwood’s Calia line, but I am still not quite ready to spend $60 on a pair of leggings. And the most I really like to spend on a sports bra is about $40 (and that is pushing it! It better keep the girls in!) The Reebok line has some great bras and tanks, and they hold everything in! Yes, please! 

Tanks and leggings from Fabletics

Have you guys tried Fabletics yet? If you haven’t, you need to! Such amazing, beautiful and functional (so important!) fabrics! I don’t order pieces from them all the time, only when I really need or want something brand new. But I have loved what I have purchased so far. I think they are worth every penny! And they aren’t that expensive as it is! 

Tank from Cross Training Couture

You have already seen the leggings, but I had to share about my newest buy. That tank from Cross Training Couture. Doesn’t it scream spring? And you guys, it is so soft!!!!! I almost didn’t want to sweat in it! One of my new favorites!

Bras from Victoria’s Secret.

I don’t think I have shared about these yet. I purchased them back in December, but these bras are legit! Holds everything in. Perfect for high intensity performance and not that expensive! I think the blue one cost about $30! The other two were $15. Yes!!!!! Don’t write off VS’s sports line. They have some great performing gear. So far, I like their bras the best. I haven’t purchased any pants yet. 

That is what I have for you today! Would love hear where you are shopping for workout clothes?! I know Marshall’s and Target have some great pieces out right now as well!

Be a Size You,

*FTC disclosure: some links included in this post are referral links. So if you choose to make a purchase through those links, I do get a small credit. Please note that I am not employed nor do I get paid for my reviews or opinions with any of these companies mentioned.  I purchased the aforementioned items with my own money. * 

Fashion Confidence for the Average Gal

When I was in my 20’s, I wasn’t exactly the most fashionable of people. My husband liked to joke that I really only wore jeans, a turtleneck sweater and these faux snakeskin boots. Like, everyday. I also didn’t really wear makeup except for the occasional lipstick and some foundation, blush, and mascara. It was like a foreign language to me. And I was in pageants! (Clearly, not Miss USA material! 😂)

Lucky for me, my husband thought I was amazing enough to marry and we have been married for nearly 13 years. Gals, you don’t need to be a beauty queen to snag a guy.

Because before I dive into my fashion post, let me remind you.

Real beauty and confidence comes not from the latest trends and advertisements.

It comes from God alone. He has already defined beauty. It doesn’t change with the seasons and it doesn’t have a “color of the year” that you must adhere to if you want to “IN.” 

How word is clear on what a beautiful and confident woman looks like.

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

“How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news…” Isaiah 52:7

A woman who chooses to trust in the Lord, to praise Him all the days of her life, who chooses to be a rare jewel in a society of imitation. That is far more lovely than any fashionable outfit you could come up with.

Now, fashion is fun. I love clothes and shoes and accessories. I am inspired by the prints and colors that I see regularly on social media and in my favorite shops. It is okay to be inspired. It is okay to get creative. 

For those of you who feel like you have no idea what style is or how to feel put together because all you feel you are just a mom with her kids, doing the mom thing: you can still do the mom thing, love your kids, and feel cute. I used to be where you are. I found what works for me and I am here to share with you!

1. What do YOU like?

Do you? Do you want something that is easy to put together without a whole lot of thought? Do you prefer pants or dresses? Muted or bold colors? Accessories? A lot or a little? What inspires you? When you look at fashion photos, what are you drawn to? Usually, it is catches your eye and you admire it, chances are, that is part of your “style” so go ahead and replicate it!

2. Invest in a few good pieces.

I believe investing in a couple of pairs of really good jeans is worth it. You will wear them a lot, so having a good solid pair that can take a beating is worth it! A good jacket and/or vest and a little black dress is always a win as well. Most tops and dresses and even shoes you can get for relatively inexpensive (hello Marshall’s and Nordstrom’s Rack and Target!) If you do have to buy some new things, don’t feel like you have to buy everything at once. It is okay to buy what you can, and then go from there. 

3. Get inspired by fashion magazine and social media pages, but allow them to be the rule.

You set the tone for your own fashion. You like what you like. Don’t allow anyone to tell you that it isn’t in fashion, that it isn’t designer, that they don’t like it. If they wouldn’t wear it, great. But you are not dressing for them. You are dressing for YOU. You are dressing with confidence that fits your lifestyle, your beliefs, your ideals, your family. 

I wear a lot of Lularoe and Jane.com stuff and other small businesses. Why? Because their clothing fits my style and lifestyle. I am a work at home mama with two school age children in sports and a husband in local church ministry. My style and fashion choices work for me. You do you, boo. 

4. Enjoy the process.

Your fashion choices WILL change as you get older. They are constantly developing. That is just the way it is. I am obsessed with wearing dresses right now, but who knows, I might be over it in a couple of months and just want to wear shorts and a cute t-shirt and converse and head to the beach! But who cares! Again, do you!

Some of my favorite places to shop:


The Mint Julep Boutique

Lularoe (my sister has just launched her own boutique! Go support her! 😍)

Be Still Clothing Company


Marshall’s/TJ Maxx 

Nordstrom’s Rack

Charming Charlie (for accessories and shoes and cute gifts)

Tell me all about your style? Your likes and dislikes? What scares you about fashion and dressing up? I want to see what you all come up with! You gals inspire me! 😍
Be a Size You,


*Disclaimer: I receive no commission from the links posted above. All suggestions and links are for recommendation only. None of the companies mentioned above has partnered with me in this blog post. *

Fall Outfits I have Been Loving

I love dressing for Fall.

Get me some skinny jeans or leggings, oversized tops and sweaters, scarves, booties or boots, and I am so good to go.  If you haven’t guessed, I LOVE shopping. I love clothes. I love helping my friends find cute outfits and deals and helping them feel like the cute sassy mamas that they are.  My mission is really to help women feel good in their skin and say so long to insecurity. (Great book by Beth Moore by the way! Go read it!)

Here are just a few of my favorite outfits recently:




We are still experiencing high temps here in SoCal, but pretty soon, I won’t be able to wear those cute shorts or dresses. But these have been my favorite go to pieces so far.  I love oversized tops.  And if you recognize a few of those pieces, yes, they are LuLaRoe.  I don’t know what happened, but I have become obsessed with their clothing.

I don’t sell it, but I know several amazing gals who would love to style you if you have ever wanted to try them out. Their leggings? Like buttah!



There are also some great pieces at H&M, Old Navy, Brickyard Buffalo, Jane.com, and of course, Target!!!! That is where I stock up on most of my seasonal wear.  I also love layering too, which comes in really handy when the weather cools down and you have dresses that can go from summer to fall.  Don’t be afraid to mix and match and get creative.  IG and Pinterest are great places to get inspiration so you can find a style all your own and rock it!

Be a Size You,


Fitness Fashion for Frugal Mamas

I love shopping for clothes. It makes me happy. Some people enjoy going to the spa, getting their nails done. Eating out.

But for me? Drop me off at the mall or a cute little downtown area with fun boutiques and I am one happy gal! It fills my tank! Drains my bank account but there is no need to talk about that right now!

And speaking of shopping, I get a lot of questions asking me where I buy my fitness clothes. Truthfully, I don’t spend like to spend a lot of money on active wear. I LOVE Lorna Jane and Athleta, but seriously, spending $60 on leggings makes me cry just a tiny bit. I really only spend that kind of money if I obsess over them after seeing them in a store. I have to LOVE my purchase.

Before I went to Summit, I went to Forever 21 to find some workout clothes for myself and I was pleasantly surprised! I picked up a couple of really cute pieces, but I saw some online that I thought would be great to pick up later. Plus, they won’t break the bank!

There are so many to choose from!! This is one of those things that I like to reward myself with after finishing a fitness program. I will buy myself clothes or cute gear to motivate me to keep going, long after I have finished a program. Incentives are fun!

What are your favorite places to shop for workout gear? 

Be a Size You,